Did you know that a letter of recommendation for college is one of the most universal parts of the application process and something every student has to have?
With so many schools going test-optional, colleges are in the process of finding new ways to evaluate your teen’s readiness (which is a work-in-progress!)
One thing that seems certain, however, is that letters of recommendation will be scrutinized carefully, maybe more so than in the past.
IF YOU'VE GOT A SENIOR, the first college planning task to do once school begins is to ask teachers for recommendations. Students often ask the same (wonderful) teachers and the earlier you approach him/her, the better chance you have of them accepting AND having time to write you the letter.
IF YOU'VE GOT A JUNIOR, advise him/her to consider, over the course of the coming school-year, which junior teachers he/she would like to ask for recommendations (guidelines below) and develop strong relationships with those teachers.
Colleges tend to give more weight to teachers who have taught you recently, so it's best to ask a junior year teacher (unless you don’t have one that knows you well).
Ideally pick one teacher from the science/math and one from the language arts/social studies department to demonstrate your strengths in multiple areas (some colleges will even require this).
If you only need one recommendation, a very solid letter from your math teacher may be better than an amazing recommendation from your history teacher if you’re planning on studying engineering.
It's best NOT to choose teachers who teach electives for your main letter of recommendation (with exceptions like a music teacher for music school applicants), as colleges are most interested in your academic strengths.
Good to know: Teachers will typically only write one universal letter that will be sent to all the schools on your list, vs individually tailored letters for each college.
Always ask the teacher in person, not via email. If he or she hesitates, take that as a signal that he or she might not be able to write the best letter. In that case, thank them and find someone else.
Make your teachers’ task easier by giving them a bit more info about you, your future plans, & your experience in their class. For instance, type something up that responds to these questions:
You should always waive your right to see your letter(s) of recommendation.
If you don’t waive your right the college will wonder why you didn’t feel comfortable enough to waive it. It makes you look like you’re hiding something and they may not take the letter as seriously.
Setting up so that letters of recommendation are ready to go is an easy task that students can get behind them early in the fall, which will help ease stress!
Share this info far and wide to help friends get ready and be less stressed!
Your teens most important task for the summer is to write the main essay/personal statement that will go to all/most colleges.
There's too much pressure once senior year begins and good essays need time for cultivation and revisions.
If your teen hasn't started with that yet I’m always available to help make it happen. I offer 1:1 coaching, which you can learn about here.
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